Some men are oblivious to the fact that women actually like to be swept off their feet. Some of them are complacent with the idea that now that they've got their woman in their hands, they don't need to do anything else. Which for most reasons, is one a main contributing factor for the fall of relationships. You let the fire run out dude. You're at fault. We at Menknowpause hear you. So here's how to make Halloweens just as romantic as Valentines.

While you don't need everyday to be Valentines to be romantic, and we certainly hope you're not insane to want everyday to be Valentines day, the most important thing to remember when creating the atmosphere for romance is fun. That's why we suggest that you:

1. Go to a Halloween Party
Dress up in complimenting costumes / characters. Like a nurse and a doctor. Like Mr Fantastic and Invisible woman. Like Cyclops and Jean Grey. And like so many others that you can find online to pair you with your woman / lady friend.

Group stuff is fun, and shows her that you can have fun too. With crowds and with her as well. This would of course, incur some form of investment in terms of costumes but nevertheless learn the art of satisfaction, for when you do, you'll never be sorry any day.

After all that partying, dancing and drinking, head out for just a one on one time with her. Still clad in your halloween costumes, go to a quiet place to finish up with either some wine or dessert.


2. Not big on parties? How about some craft?
If you're not a fan of crowds, then I suggest making something with your own hands as a gift to her. While most people associate Halloween with the creep factor, craft something out as a gift. Here's an idea:

Carve A Jack-O-Lantern Couple:

Carve out your inner child by making jack-o-lanterns. It may sound cheesy, but carving pumpkins is a hands out way to break the ice with a new date or spice things up with long-term partner. Dunking your hands in pumpkin seeds and pulp is strangely sensuous and could lead to a pumpkin fight, which is always fun and may lead to other things. Keep a camera handy for some great photo ops too.

I can't teach you the game with just instructions, you've got to get out there and experience it. And chances are the more times you try, you'll be more comfortable with the entire process. Don't believe me? Try it!