Did you feel like you met the perfect woman for you? One problem, your ex was a tall, slim, blond haired bombshell whom all your guy friends still give you grief for dumping her. You had obvious reasons to dumping her. It could range from infidelity, insecurities or even the fact that you two just never got along.

Your new woman is a not so tall girl next door, sweet and nice, but she is intimidated by your extravagant past - mostly sex with you because she feels she's not doing a job as good as your hot ex. In a brief time, sex with her deteriorates, and it demoralizes the both of you.

Jealousy over other women (or exes) in your life is not too common, but common enough for many of us, especially if the your ex is hotter, younger, smarter and sexier in bed. Here's how to boost your girlfriend's confidence.

1. Avoid Ogling Other Women

You have to let her see that women no matter what shape or size do not matter to you at all. Even if they do, try not to let her catch you. Ogling at pretty things are completely natural in human behaviour. If you're out on a sunny day, get on your sunglasses and ogle as much as you want, as long as she doesn't see your eyes rolling about while you're doing it. If she catches you tilting your head towards a hot women, you better say your prayers and hope sex is still on tonight.

2. Compliment Her

Make your girlfriend feel like she's the best piece of art to have. Not just on one day, but regularly. Don't overdo it. You want to make her feel sexy, seductive and like she means everything to you. If she brings up your ex in a "oh really, what about (your ex), everyone knows she was well hotter than me", you had better prepare enough ammo to back you up by saying "yea, she was okay, but not as sexy as you" or "did people tell you anything about her black personality that came along with it? Skin doesn't last, but what's inside matters" or if you can dish out something totally romantic and corny like that you'll be safe. Lets just hope you mean it!

3. Encourage Her In Bed

By this meaning when you get turned on by her, let her know how hot you are for her. Tell her how much you've longed for her the entire 3 days you hadn't seen each other. Make her feel sexy and special, and even if you have tried everything before, be humble and make her feel like she is making you feel special for the first time. If you are coming, let it out with your biggest moan. It's a huge ego booster for any girl to make a guy cum screaming.

4. Be Random

Send her random smses, emails, facebook messages to show her how you miss her and are thinking about her. Again, don't overdo it as she can probably sense the sucking up and will get annoyed by you. Send her a random "missing your gorgeous lips" on a Wednesday morning, or type her a "when you come over on Saturday I am going to feed you your favourite ice cream. I miss you" e-mail. Buy her a bunch of flowere for a date, or even leave her a note on the toilet mirror saying "hello morning breath" or something funny. Use your imagination and be creative. Women love sweet surprises.

5. Avoid Talking About Your Hot Ex

Women's ears tend to gravitate towards any conversation of

a) Your hot ex

b) Your previous 'love of your life'

c) The best thing that ever happened to you - prior to your current gal.

Avoid talking about these women that may set of the insecurity alarm off in your girlfriend's head. Keep it light and don't voluntarily reminisce or dish out the intimate details of your past conversations. Try to do things differently with your new girlfriend such as

a) Don't take her to your happy places; restaurants, vacation spots, favourite lounges. Instead get out and together choose a new spot just for the both of you, void of any past influences. This will help avoid the "when I used to come here with..." thoughts.

b) If you had a hobby with your ex such as rock-climbing, invite your current girlfriend to it but don't make it your thing because she will feel that someone else was there first. Sacrifice a little and pick out a similar sport like hiking, or kickboxing, or anything your ex and you didn't share intimate passions about. You have to find ways to eliminate thoughts of your ex from your current girlfriend's wondering mind.

6. Never Get Defensive

In this case, defense is not the best offense. If you are defensive, your girlfriend will think you have feelings to hide, or are getting riled up for the sake of your ex. Even if you are still in good terms with your ex, you need to be calm and answer to any insecurities your girlfriend may have. Don't dodge questions because it will only make her more suspicious of you.

If you are able to cure her insecurities, she will feel a lot more comfortable with you thus letting her body get used to you. Don't force her to face facts, instead try to help her understand how much you love her. However if she gets unreasonably out of control and nothing works for you then you may have caught a woman who is totally insecure about herself as a person.

Good Luck!